Frequently Asked Questions

Why did You become a Dominatrix?

My creative side comes in many shapes. As a former Chef, senses have always been heightened for Me and associated with both pleasure and chaos. I found that My BDSM and sexual endeavors led Me naturally to this path; and have been happily professionally active for many years now. Quite a few kitchen tools are still in working order for memorable sessions (for the adventurer). Being the Hedonist I am, neither of these professions surprise Me.

How do I book a session with You?

You may complete My Session Request Form. This is the first step to spending alone time with Me in My private dungeon space. Booking 1-3 weeks in advance is suggested. Always address Me as Mistress; be both professional and polite in your form or email. Remember that we not in a scene. I am looking to find if we are compatible; My interests lie with men that respect My time, and value how to communicate appropriately.

What are Your favorite Kinks?

You can view My most loved activities for both in the dungeon and beyond, HERE. I not only enjoy these activities with novice pets and promising submissives, but those who wish to grow in to new kinks with Me on a deeper level over time. If you have questions about this, contacting Me via TEXT or CALL to get to know Me better before our session, is welcomed.

How long should I book for a first time session?

If youʼre newly submissive and experimenting, and know three activities youʼd like to engage in, a good place to start is 90 minutes to 2 hours. 1 hour is generally not suggested, to take in all that I have to offer a novice client. If you are an experienced submissive-to get in to heavier activities, 2.5 hours or longer is fantastic to cultivate unique and deep experiences. I love weekly or bi-monthly check ins with My favorite subs.

Do You see________?

I enjoy playing with a vast array of submissives. I not only love Dominating men, but women, couples, and non-binary persons. LBGTQ community extremely welcome. I love to be a Dominant guide to every being that is worthy of what I have to share. I adore playing with other Dommes! Ask Me how to book a Double Domme session!

Online Domination? Distance Training? Virtual kinky play?

Yes, yes, and YES! I love Skype-ing with My pets; whether it be to keep up with you in between sessions, or because you aren’t in the San Francisco Bay Area. I love to TEXT, CHAT, and Play Virtually, or simply give you commands.

Can I spend a whole day with You? Overnight? Take You shopping?

Why, yes! To get a bit closer to Me, as well as have your mind fucked for longer, you can request any of the above by filling out a Session Request Form. Be sure to specify your desires.

What does it take to be Your slave?

The truest submissive men who serve and have served Me in a devoted, long term manner are few. I am quite selective when it comes to choosing loyal pets, and of course I am not impressed with selfish service. It is sacrifice. True servitude is a privilege. It is not self seeking. Why do I allow you in to My world? What is it you have to add to My life? When My pets come serve Me over time and show Me what they have to offer, I tend to allow them privileges (personal service tasks, errands, personal chat time, etc.). Do you have what it takes?

Will there be any sex during our session?

NO. I am a Professional Dominatrix, not an Escort. I do not provide sexual services.

Where are You located?

I currently reside in San Francisco Bay Area; sessions are held in a private dungeon space in Oakland. I have recently also started accepting sessions in the Sacramento area.

Can I…Do You…I’m curious about…____.

Have you read My entire website?

How can I make the best first impression possible?

If you appreciate Me, or want to impress Me, do so! I am always truly thankful and pleased when My clients bring or send Me gifts! Check out My WAYS TO SERVE page for ideas on how to better secure My attention.

Clients that send gifts, tributes, and letters of affirmation are ALWAYS remembered and prioritized.